Sex might not be the only thing that matters in a relationship but let’s be honest; it’s a much bigger deal than some of us like to admit. There’s no shame in wanting a partner who can satisfy your needs. The vast majority of people would consider sexual compatibility to be pretty important in a long term relationship.
The sex life of the average couple tends to follow one of two well-worn paths. Either the sex is mind blowing when you start out but gradually falls into a comfortable routine, or the sex is a bit awkward and can take a little practice to get there. Whether your sex life needs improvement or just a little freshening up following these three simple Erotic E’s can get you back on track to satisfaction.
Intimacy is probably the most important aspect of a couple’s sex life. Ideally you want to be able to discuss all the important things in life with your partner. Sex should be one of those important things. If you are unable to discuss your likes and dislikes honestly and openly then it’s going to be difficult to get the results you desire. This is why it is important to explain your preferences to your partner and listen to theirs. Communication should always be the number one on your check list when trying to reinvigorate your bedroom routine.
Once you’ve got the communication down you enter the next stage of the checklist. Now is the tie to explore some of the things that came up in conversation. This could mean exploring one another’s bodies and paying closer attention to how everything works, or it could mean exploring a few fantasies and new scenarios. It’s important to be open to exploration but you should never feel pressured into agreeing to something simply for your partner’s sake. If you are indifferent to the activity but your partner is really keen then it might be nice to give it a go, especially if you have fantasies of your own to explore. However, if you are really uncomfortable with something it’s important that you communicate that to your partner. In a healthy relationship nobody will force anybody into doing something that they don’t want to do.
When it comes to experimenting I’m talking about introducing new things that one or both of you might never have tried before. This could be by using a sex toy like the we-vibe or even accessories like restraints or whips. Experimentation should always be done with caution and it’s worth doing a little bit of research before jumping into anything new. It might take a while to find toys or accessories that work for you but when you find the right ones you’ll be back to having killer orgasms in no time!